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Confidence In Conflict Podcast – Dave Young – Retail Situation

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Dave Young is a co-founder of Vistelar and a nationally recognized officer safety and defensive tactics authority. He is a master instructor in Vistelar’s non-escalation, de-escalation, and crisis intervention curriculum and heads up Vistelar’s physical alternative training (personal protection, stabilization, control, non-lethal weapons, and lethal weapons).

Dave’s background includes being a corrections and law enforcement officer in the state of Florida, gate sentry, patrol officer, watch commander, investigator, Special Reaction Team (SRT) Team member and commander in the United States Marine Corps. He has participated as a control system designer for both military and civilian authorities.

In this 30 minute audio, Dave discusses the application of Vistelar’s tactics in a retail setting with Allen Oelschlaeger, the host of the Conflict In Conflict podcast.

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“It helped me deal with the proxemics of conflict.”

Ben Gatto, Fort Carson, CO

Verbal Defense and Influence Instructor

Meddac Security

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It’s all encompassing when dealing with many forms of conflict. I plan to bring these standards to the rest of my entire department.

“Our department rarely gets complaints.”

Robert Gurska, Minneapolis, MN

Verbal Defense and Influence Instructor

MOA Security Lieutenant

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We’ve been following this program for almost 23 years now. The program is great and it’s all about showtime.

“We’re going to provide a better environment for our customers.”

Thomas Peterson, Minneapolis, MN

Verbal Defense and Influence Instructor

MOA Security

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We’re taking some of the principals of Verbal Defense and everyone who visits the Mall of America will feel safer in this environment.

“I believe this will help us do our job much better.”

Larry Monskey, Minneapolis, MN

Verbal Defense and Influence Instructor

MOA Security Patrol Sergeant Supervisor

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I really enjoyed the VDI course. I’ll be able to use it in both communicating with my officers and people on the floor. I think all our officers will be more successful because of the course.

“It really covers the whole spectrum.”

Corbin Richards, Minneapolis, MN

Verbal Defense and Influence Instructor

MOA Hotel Security

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This is good not only for our officers and security, but also the front desk, housekeeping, and anyone that deals with the general public. The operation runs much more safely, comfortably, and smoothly.

Phone Call Leads to National Partnership

An entry by Bill Singleton

In July 2016, I was four months into my “retirement” as a police officer of 19 years when we received a training inquiry.  I had seen hundreds of training inquiries during my 5 years with Vistelar, but this one was different.

It was the National Retail Federation.

They wanted us to conduct a de-escalation workshop at their annual NRF Protect conference (June 26-28, 2017 in Washington DC).  Vistelar has trained in almost every market and profession, but the scope of this was enormous.  I knew I had to call them immediately.

I dialed the phone and began speaking with the Vice President of Loss Prevention, Bob Moraca.  I instantly felt a connection with Bob and stopped thinking about this inquiry as a “task” or “job”, but more like a project that needed viable solutions.

The problem – aggression had increased in the retail industry and loss prevention was asking for conflict management training program to help intervene and prevent further discord.

Bob and I started talking regularly on the phone and quickly began to put a plan into action.  As our partnership grew, a friendship started to develop and soon we were putting the final touches on what will be a great 2017 NRF Protect Conference.

With the help of Bob, the NRF and his colleagues, Vistelar is unveiling a new manual, a live conflict management workshop for loss prevention, and a new two-hour loss prevention online course (complete with video scenarios all related to retail).

We’ve never had a partnership to this extent.  And I’ve never had a friendship like this before.  On June 26th, the world will be introduced to Vistelar’s training and I will finally get to meet my good friend, Bob.  We are truly grateful and we’re looking forward to it.  We will see you June 26-28th in Washington DC!

What Type of Instructor are You?

Hello,

This is Gary Klugiewicz.

I am the director of training for Verbal Defense & Influence that I recently had an phone conversation with Doug Lynch, one of our Vistelar Trainers.  He asked an an important question about the difference types of instructors that I wanted to share with you.

His question to people who provide instruction to others was What type of Instructor are you?

I asked him to provide his thoughts on this question that I posted below:

When I first started as an instructor, I proudly called myself a trainer. I was in front of people and telling stories, showing PowerPoints, getting a few laughs and told to come back again. I thought I could train. But, my students were failing to do what I needed them to do once they left the class. Was it me? Was it them? Was it both? Thus, started my journey.

I sought out mentors and coaches and was lucky enough to meet and learn from some of the best in the business; Gary Klugiewicz, Bob Lindsey, Peter Jaskulski, Dave and Betsy Smith, Jack Hoban, and about a dozen more. I am thankful for their patience and transfer of knowledge. It became apparent I was a Presenter, not a trainer. There was much more that needed to be accomplished in a classroom than just getting people to agree with what I was instructing.

Below is a small bit of that information to help  instructors better understand what they are doing, what they are capable of and what they need to be able to perform to master a style/level. It helps us to explain to non-instructors what to look for and what to expect from different styles/levels. In most cases, these are levels, not styles. Instructors progress through them from 1 to 4 over a career/lifetime. But, there are always exceptions.

  1. Presenter / Presentation: Passive, lays out information for students. Minimal, if any, checks for understanding, learning and performance are done. To become a Presenter, one becomes proficient at public speaking and holding the audiences interest.
  2. Teacher / Teach: Passive, guides students through information, confirms cognitive knowledge.
  3. Trainer / Train: Active, students learn how to perform tasks, ability to perform under stress confirmed.
  4. Coach / Coaching: Efficient, mastery of the levels below them. Able to TRAIN people to be competent at any of the first three levels.

His categories illustrate an increase in both competency and effectiveness that I find thought-provoking.   Do we want our instruction to merely provide information or do we want it to provide skills and changes in long-term behavior?  As with most things, the answer depends on who you are instructing, your purpose, and the length of time you have to do it.

Please post your comments below.

Are you really trying to persuade a person to do something or are you just checking off the boxes.

Hello,  This is Gary Klugiewicz.

Dave Young and I just finished facilitating a four day Verbal Defense & Influence Instructor Class at the Anoka County Sheriff’s Office located near Minneapolis, MN.  It was a very interesting class with lots of interaction with the instructors in the class.   Daniel Zeller, a security patrol lieutenant for Mall of America, brought up an interesting observation that he had made about how officers sometimes use persuasion during officer / citizen contacts.   In VDI training, we spend a great deal of time on the Persuasion Sequence that is a five step process for persuading a person to do what an officer is asking them to do.   Dan has seen this process sometimes circumvented so that it becomes a checklist that allows an officer to take action rather than a vehicle for de-escalation of conflict.   This problem goes way beyond public safety applications and impacts all contact professionals who have to deal with difficult persons.

Read on to see what this VDI Instructor has to say about this issue:

“In regards to the Persuasion Sequence when we are in contact with a subject and want them to do something, some officers may view it as merely a checklist or steps they need to follow in order to make an arrest. Rather than using the technique to generate voluntary compliance, cooperation, and collaboration, they fly through the options and confirming non-compliance because their department policy states that is what they are required to do prior to making an arrest under these circumstances. Although this does not occur with regularity, it can be assumed that it does occasionally happen.

With the newer officers they should be reminded that time is on our side. They should take the time to attempt to persuade the subject and not be so quick to throw on the handcuffs. It would be in our best interest to address it with our line officers and remind them that the Persuasion Sequence is there to do just that, persuade the subject to comply, rather than be taken into custody. We need to be in the guardian mindset and treat these people with dignity and respect.”

Thank you Lt. Zeller for this insight into the challenges of persuasion.   Tom Cline wrote an interesting article entitled “Are You a Helper or Hunter” in American Street Beat that can be accessed at  https://apbweb.com/are-you-a-helper-or-hunter/.  Are you functioning and using the persuasion sequence as a helper, i.e. protector or as a hunter, i.e., an enforcer?  While public safety officers and other contact professionals have to enforce laws, policies, and rules,  they must always remember that their primary function is that of a protector.   Remember that the purpose of the Persuasion Sequence is to generate voluntary compliance, cooperation, and compliance – not to be a vehicle to quickly take action.   By efficiently and effectively asking, explaining why, presenting options, and giving the person a second chance, you will have the best chance of persuading the person and not have to resort to taking action.

Please post your comments below.

 

A Missed Opportunity (or two)

Kati Tillema here. If you are a sports fan, and specifically follow NBA basketball, you probably have heard of an incident that escalated among the New York Knicks owner, a former player, and event security. There are two sides (or more) to every story and it is impossible to ever know exactly what transpired. However, I was reading an article about the situation and one thing did stand out to me: the former player, Charles Oakley, was quoted as having responded to the security guards informing him that he had to leave with the question “why?”

If you have been through a Verbal Defense & Influence class, you know that there was probably a missed opportunity by the security guards who escorted Mr. Oakley out of the stands. They may have been able to prevent the situation from escalating by approaching him with a Universal Greeting and immediately making the reason for their contact transparent. One of the Five Maxims for treating people with dignity by showing respect is to explain why – set context.

Maybe Mr. Oakley already knew the answer to the question. But at least he would have heard it, which may have reduced his sense of disrespect and could have prevented him from escalating quickly. Everyone wants to know why they are being asked (or told) to do something, so if you anticipate the question and address it immediately during an initial interaction, you can greatly increase the likelihood of a positive outcome; or in this case, avoid getting your picture on ESPN for something other than your athletic abilities.

If you read the full reports, the “why” question is just one of the many missed opportunites by everyone involved to non-escalate and de-escalate what happened. Read the full article here.